Emotional Sabotage

How many times have we experienced the unfortunate creation of emotional sabotage in our relationships. There is no intentional reason for doing it. It comes from the innocent unawareness of a limiting belief, but, it exists, and we do it without a conscious effort. What do I mean by Emotional Sabotage? It is in the thought that "I am not good enough to have this wonderful man or woman in my life". "The bubble is going to burst and they are going to discover who I really am". "My life is to complicated to have an intimate relationship with someone". "I can't afford to get hurt again, and I know that he/she will leave me eventually". Does any of this sound familiar? Before we know it we have failed before we even started. We force ourself to see things in a negative way, about a situation, so that we can prevent ourselves from the feeling of hurt.