Sacred Relationship IV

In a Sacred Relationship intimacy and sexuality are a celebration of souls. There is a communion between two people. This is the sharing of holy spirit that dwells within all of us. In this time of unconditional loving there is no need to please, it is the desire to share the oneness each feels within themselves with the other. As that all encompassing love is extended outward towards another, the pleasure and desire builds into an ebb and flow of the holy spirit with in each partner. It is truly a spiritual experience that is more that just physical touch. When one is truly in a Sacred Relationship the deepest part of the self is exposed in such a glorious way. It is not about the flesh as it is about the union of God energy coming from the inside reaching out.

Sacred Relationships III

When we are looking at our relationships to see if they fill us or deplete us, we can get a clear picture of who we go to for fulfillment. The three most important ways to get full and stay full are by first going to God, Universal Source, Creator, Buddha, Allah whatever you call your higher power. Next you go to yourself. Lastly, you go to others to fill you up. In doing so you want to make sure that those that you seek are already full themselves. You are completely transparent in your asking for love, you let them know exactly what you need at that moment. I don't know how many times I have heard people say, doesn't he/she know that I need them to do this or that without me having to ask. Even if one could read the other person's mind, it is not their responsibility to know when you are not full yourself. When I say full I mean that you feel loved and accepted in yourself and that you do not carry judgment. This is unconditional loving. It is easy to know whether someone is loving you unconditional or not by checking where you feel your energy when you are around them. Do you feel full in your heart area or do you have that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach? Do you feel your own power or do you feel powerless?
When we are in a state of unconditional loving, we are not bound by emotional attachment. We have let go, severed the cords that bind us to others. We have let go of the judgments that create conditions. In this state the love, what we feel for someone else is the extension of the love we feel for ourselves.

Sacred Relationships II

Sacred Relationships are based on the ability to be transparent. What I mean by that is that no matter what you feel or think, you are able to share that with your partner and know that they will accept you for who you are. You don't have to put on a facade for them. Bad hair day or not the mask comes off and it is just you, bare soul in front of the eyes reflecting back your goodness and love. In a Sacred Relationship there is only unconditional love. It is safe here!

Sacred Relationships

I have been studying about Sacred Relationships and wanted to share with you what I am learning. A sacred relationship is based on unconditional loving for ones self and all others. It is the ability to see the God in everyone around you, no matter who they are. This includes the homeless man/woman begging on the street, the drug addict strung out on heroin, the teenage mother on food stamps, the executive in the big office building downtown and the person standing in front of you in the mirror. We can not truly have a sacred relationship with anyone until we ourselves are full of unconditional love. Our hearts have to be overflowing with fullness of spirit for everyone including ourselves. When we look into that mirror we should see the most beautiful inner child, full of joy and happiness that we exist. For we are perfection in every way, we are born in God's image, so therefore we truly are awesome.

Guilt

Guilt - Is a very powerful emotion that can hold us in a grip so strong that we feel immobilized. It can be a belief that we have been carrying since childhood or one that was created later in life. It doesn't matter when the guilt started, what matters is how to let it go. I have had guilt about not being good enough for a very long time. To the point that in my adult life I would berate myself for doing something that created undeserved attention. That by some measurement I wasn't high enough on that scale to receive that recognition, it belonged to someone greater. Or, the opposite would happen, I would work extremely hard and do the very best I could, and the recognition was not forthcoming. Which in turn would infuriate me as to why they couldn't see my best efforts. Ah, then the guilt....Maybe I didn't work hard enough, or maybe I'm just not good enough...The mirror in front of me shows me that I am who I believe I am. Therefore if I believe that I am unworthy, why would anyone else believe otherwise. Getting rid of the guilt is an inside job....Tap in to your greater good, Turn on the best that you have to offer, Tune out all the negative thoughts that keep you in a space of less rather than more..