Journey into the Art of Loving

What makes me tick?
This is a question that I not only ask myself, but, I ask of my clients as well. We have to examine what it is that turns us on to our greatest potential. How do we tap into our inner strength? What do we need to fill us up? These questions are vital to creating the loving experience that we desire in our lives. By understanding who and what we are, and what we want to change within ourselves. Allows us to then choose how we experience and live our life's. By bringing our thoughts and feelings out into our awareness, we allow ourselves to change those things that do not benefit us anymore, and helps us to see the desires that we have always wished for. An example of this is Jill. Jill was in a bad relationship and wanted to create a better one. We worked together on what it was that she didn't want in her current relationship, and what it was that she wanted in the next one. The other question was, "Is this relationship she is currently in, filling her up or depleating her?". Once we established that she was feeling depleated, then we could work on how she could start to fill herself with loving energy from other sources. She is not ready to end her relationship yet, but with the awareness of what she truly desires she is taking the steps towards her goal.

Sorry For The Long Vacation

I have spent many months trying to decide what to write on, or at least to speak about, in a way that would be of importance to some. What happened was that I myself felt small and that created a very rough time in the pursuit of blogging. So, here I am, back now, with a better understanding of myself and what makes me tick. I think that I have gone to the depths of my soul in an effort to understand more clearly the Art of Loving. When I say that, I am truly talking about myself. I have discovered that loving myself is harder than one might think. Oh sure, I have thought I loved myself before, but then, there were those times that I critically examined myself and all my flaws in front of the mirror. Without batting an eye my inner voice would say, look at that how can anyone want you looking like that. So, again I would look away, lick my spirit and try to step forward into the cruel world that I created. It is interesting how I can work with clients on their issues and sit there and guide them into self loving, and yet if I only heard what I was saying to them....Oh, yes! Wow! I didn't think about that. The Art of Loving is my new journey. Join me!